Living Honestly Is the Easiest Way
Unfortunately, I also make mistakes. I misunderstand things, make assumptions, and sometimes fail to communicate clearly. There is a part of me that wants to say, “No, I told them,” or “I already did my part.” But when I look honestly, there are many times when the fault is clearly mine—because I didn’t explain well enough. At that moment, I have two choices: use power and excuses to cover it up, or admit my mistake and reflect. If you look at it in the short term, covering up may feel easier. But if you look at life as a long journey, admitting your fault is far easier. That much is certain. Living honestly means having no front and no back. When there is no double face, you don’t need to lie to yourself. You may fool others once or twice, but you can never fool yourself. You start living with anxiety—wondering if your lie will be exposed. Worse still, when lying becomes normal, you begin to justify yourself. People around you are not foolish. They quickly underst...